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Flame Schoeder

MCC
Master Cerfitified Coach (MCC)
Coach Flame LLC
Country or state 
United States (Nebraska)
Available to 
Global
City 
Bellevue
Fee 
Languages 
English
Volunteer
Yes
Timezone 
America/North_Dakota/Center

Personal Details

Current position (1)

Master Cerfitified Coach (MCC)

Coach Flame LLC

Achievements (1)
Master Certified Coach

from ICF

Degrees (3)
Coaching Certification
Academy for Coaching Excellence
2004 to 2009
Masterful Coaching
InviteChange
2016 to 2017
Philosophy
St Johns College, Santa Fe
1996 to 2000

Bio

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Transformation is my jam

I light up when I see people changing for the better. I can’t help it. It is the best thing ever. In fact, I am a sucker for a transformation story. (alà Beauty and the Beast: well-read, adventurous brunette changes the world with her capacity for unconditional love? Yes, please!) This propensity for transformation started in childhood. Number one, my mother named me “Flame.” (I swear to you, it’s on my birth certificate.) Number two, I’m partially deaf and visually challenged. My circumstances challenged me to be resilient and work with the brain and body that I was given, so that’s just how I am. I figure things out. I look past what’s obvious. I’m deep and I don’t go about things the “normal” way.

I joke that my family motto is (forgive my Latin) “Defectum non est optio,” or, in English, “Failure is not an option.” We have high standards and we expect to be able to meet them in my world. The journey for me hasn’t been so much about learning to do more, achieve higher and keep clearing the bar—that was innate. Instead, it’s been about learning to know my true self, let the brilliance of others shape me and accept that universal nature (read: suffering and limitations) of being a human. In short, I am a “recovering perfectionist.” I’m a Type One on the Enneagram, if you know what I mean. The quality of my work is excellent, but the goal is to do that without it exacting it's meticulous price on my well-being.

In 2018, the International Coaching Federation chose me as the first-ever North American Young Coach Leader for my leadership in the field of coaching. Supporting the growing community of professional coaches in Nebraska and the entire US Midwest is another one of those things that lights me up! (I’m kind of a coach’s coach, which is what drew me to mentor coaching.) Our local ICF Chapter has grown from 20 members to over 60 members in the 12 years I’ve been involved and I’ve mentored at least a dozen of them.

In 2020, I earned my Master Certified Coach credential from ICF. There are only about 3,500 of us on the entire planet because it’s rigorous and transformational (surprise!) to master this way of being in the world. I’ve coached in organizations as large as PayPal and TD Ameritrade, but my first love is individual coaching.

So, if you need need a presentation because something on on your team needs to change, let’s meet for a 30-minute chat (no-obligation, I promise). A conversation with me could literally change your life. http://coachflame.coachesconsole.com/v3/calendar/complimentary30

Now, let me just answer that burning question... Yes, that is my real name. It wasn't the easiest name to grow up with, but as a coach I've embraced it. I help mid-career professionals find fuel for their fire--their passions and goals. Partner with me to create a workshop or event that lets your team's fire shine through.

About Me

Flame Schoeder is a Master Certified Coach (MCC), mentor coach and coach supervisor, and an Enneagram teacher. In 2018, she earned one of the first Young Coach Leaders designations from the International Coaching Federation (ICF).

She delights in transformation stories and being part of others’ quests for authenticity. Professionally, she does this by coaching mid-career professionals who are searching for a sustained sense of fulfillment.

Flame lives in Omaha, Nebraska with her two brilliant children. When she isn’t coaching, she’s planning her future tiny house and dancing to Jason Mraz tunes. And yes, that’s her real name.

Presentations

Presentations (1)
Empowerment for Difficult Conversations

We all have a “difficult conversation” we know we should be having. Why don’t we have them? What makes them so difficult? And, more to the point, what should we do about it? In this presentation, you will learn a tool to help you determine exactly why each difficult conversation is so difficult for you, as well as how to shift your mindset so it is easier to have (and might actually be productive!).

Then we will look at specific mindsets that empower people when we are relating to them and a step-by-step framework to help you navigate your next difficult conversation. You’ll walk away empowered to have that conversation and feel good having it!

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Books & Articles (2)

A Farewell to Arms
How to Manage Your Perfectionism

Expertise (22)

Leadership
Health & Well-being
Business
Business Coaching Coaching Coaching and Development Coaching and Training Coaching mindset Change Cognitive Bias cognitive distortions Enneagram Enneagram Personalities Coaching Tools Authentic Leadership Building Resilience Developing Resilience Work Life Balance Boundaries and self care managing difficult conversations Constructive Conversations Courageous Conversations

Clients

TD Ameritrade
Physicians Mutual
ODN
AIM HDC
Immanuel
ClickRain/Lemonly
Ervin & Smith
PayPal
International Coaching Federation (ICF)

Awards & certifications (1)

Young Coach Leader
International Coaching Federation
2018
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I will partner with you to create an engaging, practical event that truly creates change.

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